proverbs 31:3

“Do not spend your strength on women, your vigor on those who ruin kings.”Protect What God Has Given You. In today’s world, we’re constantly surrounded by distractions competing for our attention, energy, and hearts. Proverbs 31:3 offers a warning from a mother to her son—a future king—urging him to protect his strength and not waste it on relationships or pursuits that lead him away from wisdom and purpose.At first glance, this verse can seem focused only on romantic relationships, but the message reaches much deeper. God gives every person valuable resources: time, energy, emotions, gifts, and purpose. The question is: Where are we spending them?Many things can slowly drain us. Toxic relationships, unhealthy habits, endless comparison on social media, bitterness, fear, or chasing approval from others can consume the strength God intended us to use for His kingdom. We often don’t notice the drain until we feel exhausted, discouraged, or far from God.The warning isn’t simply “stay away from bad influences.” It’s also an invitation to live intentionally. God calls us to guard our hearts because our hearts guide the direction of our lives.Jesus showed us what it looks like to spend strength wisely. He poured Himself out serving others, loving people, and obeying the Father’s will. He didn’t waste His purpose chasing the approval of crowds or temporary things.Today, ask yourself:What is taking most of my emotional energy?Is it drawing me closer to God or farther away?Am I investing my strength in things that have eternal value?God has given each of us strength for a reason. Protect it. Steward it wisely. Use it for things that build faith, encourage others, and bring glory to Him.Prayer:Lord, help me recognize the things that quietly drain the strength You have given me. Give me wisdom to guard my heart and spend my time and energy on what matters most. Help me pursue Your purpose above distractions and live a life that honors You. Amen.Closing thought:You don’t have to give away your God-given strength to everything asking for your attention. Not everything deserves access to your heart.